Photos (of me) suck

I'm one of the few people I know who looks noticeably worse in nearly every photo than in person. it's so frusturating! I just got links to photos from my good friend Ang's wedding, and my arm is the size of a grown man's thigh in nearly every photo. It's so disheartening. My friend will swears i don't really look like that and they're all bad pictures, but how can every picture be bad? it's an actual representation of the light in the scene. surely i just must be huge and have a really distorted view of myself thinking i'm not too big. at any rate, it's thrown me off. i am always a little emotionally raw when i get back from burningman, this year is no exception. possibly more on that later...